6'0" 180lbs, athletic. Looking for sexual chemistry with someone physically compatible, fun, and wanting to experiment. In search of FWB (not long-term/serious). Re photo: I'm not one to trust websites with a lot of peral info. So, just provided torso pic. Sorry, no headshots will be posted (only via email). WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. [It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one] \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\**I like being healthy and I'm sure you do too. It should go without saying: no glove = no love. I figured I'd use the "Writing Ideas" list as a springboard here... 1. Most of my friends would say I have a easy-going but mischievous perality. Quick witted, funny (especially adept at playful sarcasm), and not at all afraid to make fun of myself. 2. When it comes to physical health, I exercise about 2 – 4 times per week (or never), and expect my sex partners to be within a reaable range of a similar fitness level (while I absolutely love a beautiful fit woman, I'm not one to snub someone just because they're not a supermodel—there's a lot more to a per than gym-time). 3. I am ambivalent to the bar scene (I like fun bars and a good beer, but it's not the first place I'd take a date). I prefer not to go out with a bunch of people to party when I'm involved in sexual encounters. But I'd be more than happy to make our own. 4. I like my partners to (tell me what to do/follow my lead) in the bedroom. ... I like my partners to be willing to switch it up. I DEFINITELY like a woman who's not afraid to say what she does/doesn't like, but as far as sub/dom roles go, and it's nice variety if she's able to go both ways (though I [I]can[/I] make good use of a cute little sub). 5. In the bedroom, I tend to like (traditional, straight forward/kinky, experimental/other/ALL OF THE ABOVE) sex. Specifically, I'd like to find someone who's [B]interested in some experimentation[/B]. 6. I love sex. And the thing I love most about it is watching/feeling a woman climax. If she has a really good orgasm, I almost don't care if I cum or not. My desire has been fulfilled in the climax[es] she has. Hmmmm... just thinking about that makes me smile. 7. I prefer one-on-one sex, but might not mind trying it with another (man/woman) in the room. 8. I'm ALWAYS willing to try some light bondage or blindfolds.

My Ideal Person I figured I'd use the "Writing Ideas" list as a springboard here...

1. I'm straight. I'm interested in exploring sex with a woman. I'm looking for a friends with benefits sort of relationship—nothing committed. My ideal woman is a spunky, fun chick who can smile. She's not down on herself. She has a mischievous streak, and even some of a dark streak. She's sexually experimental and open enough to nix something that sucked, or say when something rocked. Note that the personality stuff came before physical attributes (I do not suffer pretty bitches). Physical ideals: a similar fitness level (at LEAST takes good care of herself/hygiene); age = 21 to 45-ish; nice eyes; height = 4'10" to 5'8"; not gigantic breasts; hair/skin color not important (it really doesn't matter, though I have to admit I have always kind of stared at hotties with tight blonde curls—dunno why I like that so much).

2. I'm looking for someone who can be discreet because...
... we all have our reasons.

3. I don't consider myself kinky, but I would like to try...
... a lot. I'm looking for a woman who is not afraid to be a little adventurous AND who is communicative and comfortable enough to say what she wants and what's going a little too far—you know, a good mischievous partner in sexual escapades.

4. The only taboo I have in the bedroom is...
... I'll let you know if/when I find it.

5. As far as I'm concerned, the best place to have sex is: wherever spontaneity takes us... no, really. I think it's really hot when you have the sort of chemistry that leads to those moments when you're so enthralled that you have to look in retrospect to say "Wow, I never knew I could/would make that kind of use of that counter/wall/shower/bed/hood/etc."

6. Extramarital affairs CAN add excitement to a relationship, BUT depend on the nature of the relationship.

7. One sexual fantasy I've always had is...
... quite a few fantasies (I'm fairly imaginative), but one that's stuck in my head recently has been a sexy nymph with a custom-fit stainless steel collar, a leash, and a mask that covers her nose and mouth (kind of like a surgeon's mask, but black cloth). That way, it's all about her eyes. It's centered on a single moment with some tension on the collar—just enough to inhibit movement—and looking into those eyes to see what they say.

8. My feelings on one-night stands are that: they happen because something didn't work out. That's about it.

9. During sex or a romantic evening, I prefer to listen to (name a few of your favorite artists or styles of music)...
...This REALLY depends on the tone of said evening. I am definitely into music, and have a collection that could suit about any situation, but there are times when a little industrial is just the thing and others when it's just not the right fit. You have to know the difference and be open to the pulse of the night.

10. Sensuality - like touching and candles and massage - is not as important as sex. BUT, I do think it really does have a good place in a sexual relationship. Just not AS important as sex.

11. Foreplay is often underrated. I like making good use of creative foreplay. Despite having a natural male tendency to want to get to the main event, I really think good foreplay can help turn any sexual night into a work of art.