I was a functional alcoholic for a lot of years I have been sober now for 4 years. I didn't drink to get drunk I drank to self medicate I am an introvert and drinking in moderation in the evening would bring me out of my shell I functioned well with a 4-6 can buzz and nobody could tell. To get drunk I had to drink hard liquor. Now I just deal with it on my own. I would prefer a LTR but what you want and what you get are 2 different things so either way works for me. I have been called a good bad boy in my younger days then I got married/divorced then it became asshole! I am Norwegian and love to be around water. I like to do things that upper midwesterners like to do so let's play a game of corn hole! lol I am gettig older so I am dealing with E.D. and might have to take a little blue pill so with erections lasting over 4 hours long I might have to see a doctor but you will enjoy it!

My Ideal Person You can drink if you want I used to have drunken sex often no inhibitions. I am looking for a LTR but what you want and what you get are 2 different things so either way will work. Must have mutual attractiveness (average looking or better weight proportionate to height or with a little extra padding. I would prefer a submissive woman never tell me no or push my hand away, lets get it on here and now! I am into oral I would like her to be also or a tit for tat kind of deal.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I really don't have any. Does that mean I've done it all?

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, An airplane, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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