I am living a sweet life. Love having my own car, own apartment, own bank account, etc. I have a great career as a computer programmer. I am a single mom to two great s. They know nothing about my peral tastes when it come to sexuality and I'd like to keep it that way. I'm not perfect (2 s didn't do me any favors around the middle) but work out faithfully (running, weight training, pilates, etc.) I've done some martial arts training which I love, but have never been completely dedicated too. One thing on my list of to-do's. I did some MMA training last year. Remember I am bi so rolling around on the ground with hot sticky men still holds some appeal for me. My ideal friend likes to play with men on occasion but not need one to enjoy what we have going on at the moment. Bi-sexuality is so empowering to me. It's all about choices. I don't expect athletic perfection in another woman. I would describe myself as curvy and love the same in my friends. You should be someone who takes good care of yourself though. Like I said you don't have to be perfect but you should be at least giving it a shot. And please be able to match your outfits, that is a pet peeve of mine. Sorry but I have to have at least one. ;) Besides working out I enjoy clubbing/dancing, hiking, swimming. I also write in my free time - poetry, short stories, commentaries. I'm just getting back into it and am looking to really hit it off with my writing in the near future. I just left a relationship in January and am not looking for one, just good friends and safe fun.I got so far off base with taking care of myself because he was an alcoholic mess and I let his needs overshadow mine. I am so loving my freedom this time around! I love who I am and what I stand for. I am attracted to sexy, intelligent, hard-working women like myself. If you are a per who works to have all that she desires in life then you are someone that I would love to hang out with. You should also be adventureous and open for anything in the fun department if you are interested in hanging out. I don't have time for nasties if you know what I mean. Free time is limited and I like to spend it with quality people. You should also know when it's time to be physical and when it's time to keep yourself in check. I am a professional working for a well-reputed company and am not looking to have my sexual activities interfere with my career. My bi/lesbian friends find my perality to be seductive, but I always know where the line should be drawn when it comes to crossing a friendship over to a lover's tryste. You can only be lovers and friends with certain kinds of people and I've gotten pretty good at knowing who those people are. So you should definitely be one them, if not we can always be friends. You should be open minded and willing to share. Not just sexually but intellectually as well. WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Role Playing, Threesomes, Massage, spanking minus bruises and welts thanks

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've done it so many times that I've forgotten how to type with two hands.

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