Let me preface by saying that I don't like labels. I feel that everyone is different in their own unique way. But I do understand the purpose of labels. When I first decided to explore my sexuality deeper than I ever had before I found it challenging to find that label for myself. Through a lot of soul searching, being honest with myself, examining my past; putting my pieces together to come to the realization that deep in the heart of me...is a submissive man. Once I had that figured out, I began exploring what kind of sub am I ???...and what kind of woman would best fit me. Again, here we go with those labels. As I began to match up my personality and who I really am with my submissive identity (because I think your true happiness comes from being who you really are, not who you think you should be, or what others might want you to be) I came to label myself as a "manly man out in the world but a sensual submissive who's best fit would be with Sensual Femdom in our private intimate world. I am not a sissy or baby boy. Because I am a giver and a pleaser and a sensualist; my pleasure and true happiness is derived from pleasing my partner. But I don't want to be humiliated for my submissiveness; I want to be revered and enjoyed and played with and used for her pleasure. And she should find her pleasure and connection to me as a Sensual Goddess through her innermost desires to be in command and control. It's a symbiotic relationship of love, caring, trust, giving, growing, exploration, passion and pleasure that I seek. Oh...and did I mention that there needs to be a whole lot of kink...all the time. pssleepno at g.

My Ideal Person Over the past few years, through a whole lot of soul searching and self discover, I have come to realize that my true happiness would be in a relationship with a STRONG WOMAN who wants and needs a man who will satisfy HER desires to be the DOMINANT partner in their intimate life. She would find her happiness and pleasures in taking on the persona and indulging in the lifestyle activities of a Sensual Femdom Mistress Slave Owner.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Collared and cuffed slave serving a Sensual Mistress.
Wearing a cock cage and being paraded through the club on
a leash so all would see I am hers.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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