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It truly is a question about what one is looking for. Given that it is (allegedly) a swinger site, it probably is not the best place to come when hunting for your spiritual mate (should such a thing exist). I think that the site does provide a fascinating look at humanity, on one level, at least. It is striking what people (mainly men) think is going to get them laid and how extremely rude some (yep, mostly men) are to total strangers that they are never likely to meet. All that being said, there are interesting and genuine folk on the site that you can have fun conversing with (IM and chat permitting) and a smattering of folk that you migh share an erotic hour or two with - mind, most of these are on the far side of the planet from where you are (always!), so it's best not to get one's hopes up!
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Oh, and as a PS: most of us don't pay to be on the site and so profiles can't be read unless their owner has paid to allow you to. This is something to factor in.
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i put a lot of effort into my old profile. but i think i was getting more messages because i was 40. now at 50 i don't get as many messages. my profile is is really short about lunch and requesting height and endowment when i get a message i look at where the person lives and if the message appears my limits profile was read. i was volleying with someone i wasn't sexually attracted to.. but he claimed he was just looking for companionship. he noted this site was not for him and did give me an advanced notice before deleting his account. i wasn't sexually attracted to him because he wanted to suckle my breasts as a comfort and relaxation and didn't think this was sexual. physically i wasn't really into him either. he did give a good road trip suggestion. i was in the area the other day but it was a bit too cold to be wandering on the beach to find the driftwood.
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1/15/2021 6:12 am |
You do know life is a shared responsibility and a two way street. Most women just sit back and wait for attention, or wait to be approached......then get pissy if it doesn't happen. I call this the lazy way out. Want something? GO FOR IT!
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oh, yeah... i get the younger guys who want a MILF and i just have to bust that bubble because i don't have kids... in other news i am amazed how many guys quiz me down on not reproducing. i always just say life didn't work out that way. i get a dabble of very young. and a lot who are a lot older. i'm noticing the guys who claim to be my age or a few years younger look 10 years older.
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Gosh, so many fantastic answers here!! Where to start..... this is why I LOVE your blogs. They have substance, something to actually bite and chew on. Saying - Men need a location, women need a reason. That is true! Very few women just screw anyone that asks. Those that do usually are called h00kers. I am not in any way, shape, or form saying all men, but most men will screw anything that lets them. I have decided that based upon my experiences in life with friends comments, the way men approach me, and this site. They really don't care if you are a good person, honest, trustworthy, have a value to add such as a good job or are talented in some area outside of having sex. Why? Because of what you and others have said - why those men came here. Most men see 'sex site' and think as one of my favorite bloggers, RavenGB, said and those men (not Raven) think it means online whorehouse warehouse. You log in and as the ad says 'get laid in 24 hours'. If you were a woman you can do that, but most men no matter who you are usually get that. It is an ADVERTISEMENT. If you offered men a free Ferrari they would ask what is the catch. Offer free sex and they trip on their pants they are trying to rip off so they can get their dick out as they run to get it. There are over 100 sites that all log in here and many are not listed as 'sex' sites. Passion says the leading personals network for dating, romance, and marriage. SeniorSizzler says it is for older folks. Lesbianpersonals is as it states. Datenation says for dating not sex. There are 100 of these portals that all log in here! Go to Datenation and use your username/p@ssword and see!!! They tried to add a portal called Mysecretslut that the women of the site rallied and got shot down as we knew the troubles it would bring. The way people view the site is what dictates how they act. Sadly, what I don't get, is why so many men think that if a woman likes and wants sex she is not worthy of respect. They want the sex. They want the women to be as horny as them, but then they turn around and call us sluts and whores for doing as they do. They get angry if we say no or take our time to see if we will even like them as they think this site is for 'sex only' and you don't need to like anything. You are supposed to just meet and screw then leave. Well if you want to put yourself in danger medically as well as physically that is a plan, but it is NOT safe to do that!! There are many miscreants on here that would gladly maim you, r4pe you, or k1ll you!!! That goes for men as well as women it just seems men don't think about that. What is worse is that those people, mostly men, that came here expecting the bevy of babes for free and all the sex they can handle just for existing on here get angry when it doesn't appear. This is an adult Social network! The site itself says on it... What is the purpose of Malaysiandating.com? The purpose of the Malaysiandating.com site is to make it as easy as possible for you to meet people, using the power of the internet. At Malaysiandating.com, you'll find a community of people using the site as a tool to make connections and find partners for dating, romance, friendship, and a variety of encounters. To find your match, we offer several powerful features, that allow you to narrow your search so you can find exactly the kind of person you, are looking for. On various occasions, we also add new features to make your time at Malaysiandating.com a successful and fun experience. Sadly, those that come here expecting the free online whorehouse they desire the site to be don't feel they need to wrote anything outside of they have genitals and want sex X amount of times a day and in xxx positions. I defer back to men need a location and women need a reason. For the record Quasimodo had a dick. No matter how awesome his dick was I will never see a plethora of women rushing to have sex with him. It takes more than having genitals for most women to have sex. Men that take the time to write profiles well sadly fail because of the idiot squad here that treat the women like crap. Men should get angry with men for their behavior towards us instead of being angry at women for not changing our wants and desires enough to let THEM have sex with us. Unfortunately many a guy would change for the 15 minutes it would take to get laid then disappear after they got what they wanted. That is another reason women ask so many questions as most of us don't want to be treated that way. Those men wouldn't want men lying to their daughters to get some p*ssy yet they don't see it that way when it is them doing the lying to get laid. Sorry for the length on this....
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LOL Whenever I see this I laugh. If I don't like something then I am not going to pretend to like it to see if I will like it later on or learn to like it. I can understand maybe going outside your comfort zone on say where you go to find someone. Maybe you go to a singles mingle rather than a bar. I can see that, but to say I should date someone I am not attracted to because they are outside of what I usually date i.e. I won't date anyone shorter than me, well that is just not going to happen that I will go out with someone shorter than me. I don't like it and I am extremely uncomfortable with it. I will not learn to like it or go through an evening of what would be torture to me so I am trying something outside my comfort zone. As Granny said, that would also mean no married means no married or the others she listed. I find, as she did, most people want you to change just enough so that 'they' get a chance with me and that is just not going to happen. I am not here on this planet to make someone else's date. I am not here to service anyone. I will make adjustments if it is someone I am attracted to, but I will not change any part of ME. An adjustment is totally different. It takes more than just looks for chemistry to happen, but looks are the first attraction and if a person is not attractive to you then you probably are not going to approach them. Most men don't go to a bar or club and look for the ugliest girl in the room hoping she will go out with him even for just sex although there are a few that would because they are that desperate for sex. Many a man will have sex with anyone they can because they just want sex and nothing more. I personally find that disgusting.
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I read it , top to bottom..to answer one question: " Is there some kind of cookie cutter profile template that only men are privy to on this site???" the answer is yes, I have encountered it several times over the years and is the same template on a lot of these sites..Easy to spot as the words, "not looking to change my life just add" is part of it, others also I see on many profiles.. As standard members cant read profiles in the norm of things , one does have to think, why put so much information or detail in it..?? I guess it is a viable option to make it look realistic and hope some one will bight that is worth keeping!! Good read and keep on keeping on...Just be safe Stop by at lonlyforlove2 also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker" also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'
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